What’s more, if you know how to work it, you can use your smaller penis to your advantage. That means someone who is communicative, takes his time and is attentive to her needs.” They talk about wanting a man who is good in bed. “In my therapeutic experience, most women do not talk about wanting a man with a big penis. “Some men make the mistake of comparing themselves to porn stars-the Olympic athletes of sex-and that just isn’t realistic,” says Holly Richmond, PhD, Somatic Psychologist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. Nonetheless, if you are smaller than average, you still might feel insecure about it. To quote the old adage, it’s not the size of the wave, but the motion of the ocean that matters. In fact, most studies have shown that women don’t care that much about penis size in the first place. But never fear: for most ladies, that’s not a dealbreaker. If your penis falls short of that benchmark, then you are statistically on the smaller than average side. According to a 2015 study, the average penis length is 5.16 inches.
